Well, lunch was good. W started the conversation by telling me that she had another fight with OM and temporarily threw him out again. This is now the second time that she has thrown him out of her apartment in the last month.
Personally, I really wonder how long she can go on like this. She's clearly unhappy with him in some substantial ways.
I actually told her that she shouldn't break up with him after an argument like this, because he'll always wonder what if he had said this or that in the argument. She should break up with him when they aren't angry with each other, and let him know that she's doing it because she wants to remove sin from her life and restore her relationship with God. Leaving the affair for the right reasons might inspire him toward a closer relationship with God as well. She agreed with me and thanked me for sharing that.
We had a good discussion about her spiritual state. She open with me on that topic now, because she knows that I'm not going to try to use the Bible to beat her over the head -- I'm honestly trying to help her.
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)
