To me that's the worst thing they do; cheat on the kids. Sure, no more that we should stick this out for the kids, our spouses shouldn't deny their unhappiness because of them but sometime the things they are able to do in the name of "being happy" really baffles me. Of course, as soon as WE bring up the kids, we're using them against our spouses. Um...yea. Sorry. Just commiserating with you. Carry on...
