RB, I have read your thread, like you suggested. You seem to be doing the right things. I admire your patience. I admire your strength and resolve. You definitely have the right idea.
I have gone dark on my W. Though this was her suggestion. I haven't called, or written, or anything. I still haven't heard from her, but it has been only since Tuesday since we last spoke too.
I am working on the whole better myself thing. I took a vacation, I go out with friends, I do things that make me happy. Unfortunately, I don't hear from her for her to see the changes, and she lives 40 minutes away.
My wife SAYS she feels bad for the affair (much like yours), but only says how great and supportive the OM is. He might actually be a great guy. I doubt it though. He left his fiance to persue a married woman. I don't sense a great deal of morals in the dude.
You, on the other hand, seem like a great guy with a super head on your shoulders. Keep up the good work, and keep the faith. God is definitely working with you on this one.
