Well, W invited me to spend the night (clearly not an invitation to ML), but then OM called and angrily demanded that she kick me out, which she refused to do the first time (and I indicated my willingness to leave and she insisted I stay), but the second time she gave in to him ("since this is his home too right now") while saying that she really wanted me to stay.
We had put D down for the night and were getting comfortable on the couch and snuggling when OM called the second time, so I'm hoping that his jealousy ends up backfiring on him.
During the evening, she told me more bad things about him, said that she knows she'll never be able to deal with all his issues, etc. All this is stuff she volunteered, because the only question I ever asked was how long OM was going to be out of town.
I'm very proud of myself for DB'ing effectively tonight. Though it was humiliating and infuriating to see all his stuff mixed in with hers (not to mention his Bible lying out front and center), I was prepared for this and didn't let it get to me or let it show at all.
Ultimately, the main thing is the D and I had a lot of fun with W at her apartment. I'm hoping that W compares having us there to having OM there and decides that it's more fun to have us over. We'll see what happens tomorrow -- W wants me to play tennis with her, which should be fun.
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)