Thanks, GH. I don't know if I'm really applying all the DB principles right now, since I'm not talking to her. When she moved OM in with her from Little Rock after telling me he was getting his own place, I was so angry that I just felt that it would be better for me not to talk to her and just to work on myself for a while. We'll see how I do in a few weeks when I resume contact.

I do think I have a good plan, but it's a lot easier in my sitch than in some of the others I read. I know that I would despair if I were in some of the sitches I read on this board.

I don't know if "self-aware" is really the best word either, especially as it concerns my porn problem, because I believe that conviction of sin comes from the Holy Spirit. I don't really feel that I deserve any credit for that.

The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)