Well, I took a big step towards GAL today. When most people talk about GAL, they seem to think about having fun for themselves, and I think that is something of a mistake.
Real joy and peace doesn't come from selfish pleasure -- that's what our spouses did. Real joy and peace comes from serving others (and, in my view, from living in God's glory).
Anyway, I've decided to start a pornography support group at my church. I met with the pastor today and he gave me some good materials (and I'm discovering more on the internet -- www.settingcaptivesfree.com, www.xxxchurch.com). We ordered some materials and set up a plan for me to go in front of the church Feb 25th.
I know now that I'm going to spend the rest of my life trying to help other couples improve their marriages. I'm really looking forward to helping other men with a porn problem -- maybe they won't have to wait until their wives leave them before they take action.
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)
