She didn't really lie, in the truest sense of the word. She told me that OM was going to be getting his own place, and he still supposedly is -- just as soon as he gets a job here in BR. As I said, she's not a very good liar -- she used to tell on herself to her parents as a child when she had done something wrong.
Yes, I've read Divorce Remedy -- and Torn Asunder, Love Must be Tough, Surviving the Affair, Winning Your Wife Back, and a couple of others.
I have squarely confessed and confronted my actions that contributed to the affair to W, and I put my apology for some of them in writing. Some of them were sins of neglect, while others do reflect poorly on my character. None of them, though, are things that could not be fixed. I'm going to continue to get some individual counseling to make sure that I really do have them fixed.
Quote: she will start to miss you
After Friday night, I know that!
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)
