I just meant that I'm not going to talk to her right now while she is living with OM. She can arrange to see D through her parents (who support me completely). I'm not giving up on the marriage (far from it), but I just don't want to talk to her for a while. I actually plan to wait the full two years if I have to -- she can't get D until Jan 8, 2008, unless I want to give it to her sooner.
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)