I just read your story, and I'm really sorry but also GLAD you found out the truth. It's better than thinking the lies are the truth, believe me. Ok, seriously...om is 20? He moved in with your wife but has no job or money? I don't give it very long. Can you hang on a little while? I know it is SO impossibly hard but this affair doesn't have "long term" written all over it, and I think you could stand a good chance of getting her back. Please try to think about it and give it 48 hours before you decide anything ok?
Hope
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.