Well, I found out that OM has indeed moved in with W into her new apartment. She had told me that he was moving to Baton Rouge, but into his own place. She tells me that it's just temporary and he's going to be moving out as soon as he gets a job and gets some money. She also told me that they have now decided not to have sex for now (right), but that they did have unprotected sex and that it was right at the time she should have been ovulating! So there's a real chance that she could be pregnant -- just what I wanted to hear.

I think I'm going to have to go back to my lawyer now and get a legal separation and custody, because I don't want my daughter exposed to that environment.

I think I'm also going into no contact mode with her, because there doesn't seem to be much point right now to doing anything other than waiting the affair out. I've canceled the MC session for next week, though I think I'm still going to go back for myself. I want to continue to work through my issues and make myself a better person.


The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)