I dropped off gift for H at work...his favorite artist's Cd, favorite series 1st season, & yankees cap. He loved it.
I was cool and said I didn't want to take much of his time. He apologized for not getting me anything...he said he's broke.
I was pleasant. He did comment how I didn't kiss him very intensely...I do that on purpose (a defensive thing). He said he wished he was off. He asked if we could have lunch on Thursday.
Anyway, I'm glad I got him those things becuase they menat something special to him and us.
When I got home he had left a message on my phone saying that he was thankful I did all that for him and that he loved me. He said that he was coming home "soon".
Not sure what to make of all this but I haven't pushed the R or OW talk at all. I'm letting him just think and marinate on my actions. I hope this has helped.