Quote: The sex thing... I know some people say it can increase the bond... personally, I think that may be true for most women, but not most men. I'd suggest refrain from relations with him: he can't miss it from you if he's getting it from you.
I agree with this. I would not have sex with him at all. He is making you into the OW now.
Losing him does not matter, it is YOU who will be found and cherished. -Joy Luck Club