Your H is not ready to hear about how he hurt you. Welcome to this bulletin board. There are a lot of good people here who can help advise you. However, you need to start helping yourself. You are number one. Remember that. If you haven't already, get Divorce Remedy and read it. Also, I recommend the 5 Love Languages. Others here have also mentioned Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.
You need to take care of yourself and focus on changes that you want to make to have a better life. You can't change your H. Only he can do that.
I wish you well. Come back often to post. There are people here who will help you.
Spitfire
Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest. Mark Twain
