My husband and I ahve a rough 2 or so years. We've been married for 5, together for 10. He's had an affair withthis Ow for the last 2 or so years. We lived in seperate towns for the better part of 1 year. We got back living together in April 05. Howver, his relationship with Ow never fully stopped. We connected all over again and I believe we truly fell back in love. Well about 3 weeks ago we had a huge fight because I found a text message to this girl. We ended up doing and saying things we didn't mean. The day after or so he wanted to talk but he had already moved his clothes and left with OW so I said no. I filed for divorce and that was a huge blow for him. He told his family he was depressed and it got to me. so here I am wanting to talk to him but he won't respond to me. The first conversation we had after the blow up consisted of me crying and saying how oculd he not check up on me. He said he tried but he wasn't going to beat a dead horse. He asked if I wanted the D and I said no. A day or so later he emailed me saying he loved and missed me but couldn't do this anymore. I asked if we could talk he said he couldn't that day. We are a few days later and he has not mentioned talking or where we go from here. Do I let him know how I feel in person? Do I leave this alone...what do I do? Does anyone out there know what he is thinking? It's like the tables are turning. I want to talk about how he hurt me, etc.etc. Any advice??
