Nice. F both of you, and I mean that in the best of possible ways. BTW, is it cheating for me to get in on this?
So, fine, but this "it's not about him" stuff only goes so far. Eventually, when there is a clearer path for my W and I to reconciliation, then it WILL be about the OM because he will be the main obstacle preventing us from working on us. Ok so I ignore it. She goes out to "the mall" to do whatever and all the while, scrapping plans for us. Oh, and as for the surprise thing, my W doesn't do that. She threw a surprise thing of sorts, invited another couple to dinner with us on my b-day and I hated it so she probably won't do that again. No, if, and get that pool going, IF I know my W these days, she is going to be with him tonight. I will never know of course because I will not ask, nor snoop but the timing is too good for anything else. Will she have something for me tomorrow? Maybe, but she got it in the 7 hours she spent shopping today, not the 2 or 3 she will tonight. I am bitter right now. Can you tell. I will get a handle on it. I always do...