So, you think I should just ask her what is up with V day?
Personally I wouldn't word it exactly like that...okay look at your sitch...from what I remember from your posts and correct me where i am wrong...but you've put the R on the back burner and the kids came first. For whatever reason, W felt obligated to being supermom instead of superwife. You initially did things together as a couple but through the years life and responsibiliities got in the way.
I wouldn't go spluring on a spree at VS right now...but you gotta eat, right? Okay, so if she feels funny about getting a babysitter perhaps order dinner in, maybe even for the whole family if that would make her feel more at ease. But yes, I would ask her. Something is up with her GH, you are both going away together on a trip. She is committing to that. Check the temperature with her.
