My history with ALL holidays is that I really like to go all out for her. Sometimes she took that badly since we could not really afford to do that. That is an issue this time too since we are going on a trip to Ireland in a couple weeks, she doesn't want to spend any money. I think if I ask her, she will say to do nothing, not just because of the sitch, but because of the cash flow issue. As for dinner, we have no babysitter, never have. I have tried to get one but she refuses. Now and days I think that's a smoke screen but in the past, who knows. I WOULD LOVE to take her out but...
So, you think I should just ask her what is up with V day?
