I have the same question Grasshopper! I wish I knew what was in her head right now. If I get her something(even just a card) will it provoke her...if I don't get something will it provoke her.

Frickin' games! Damned if you do, damned if you don't! V-Day is a no win situation this year, that's for sure!

JRY

“Being defeated is often a temporary condition. Giving up is what makes it permanent.” "It does not matter how slowly you go, so long as you do not stop." Confucius (551-479 BC) - Chinese philosopher