I read the 5 Love Languages and I posted afterward. Basically, I am having trouble identifying what language most fits my W. It seems like gift giving is almost a lock but problem is most every time I have given her a gift in our R, it has not exactly been met with joy. Sure, if I get her exactly what she tells me to get, then I am fine, but any effort I make to put thought into it and go off the board she just accepts and moves on. It is really confusing. I am totally a physical touch so... As for the touching being perceived as me trying to get sex, sure, that's how she always perceived it in the past thus our lack of touching outside the bedroom. I don't know how she could think that (well, I do know...) now since sex is not something we do anymore. I am confused but ok. I will post more later about my thoughts right now.
