I agree from NY! Just like a good wine "no reconciliation before its time!" I believed I was recounciling and I truly was not. Entering the grey area, but it is important to stay focused on what you have been doing and keep it going! When the time is right then you can breach alot of sensitive subjects!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
