What is behind door number 3? Who the heii knows! Stop the guessing game. You know that! You have been doing so awesome and things are moving in the right direction, just keep it going! It sounds like the OM is fading, but if you questoining it or try to stop her from seeing him it will backfire! Trust me! It happened to me and you know that. I know I am very similar to you in that I believe I can read my W very well. There were days she was down and distant and I knew the OM was on her mind, but instead of letting her work it out herself I just pushed her, and kept asking if she was thinking of the OM. NOT A VERY SECURE THING TO DO! You won't feel secure for a long time, but you need to be secure in yourself! I don't know many people who can just quit something cold turkey, and your W may do that with the OM. Just know if she does end it with the Om there maybe times and backslides just like we have!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
