Well, it's clear to me what my major challenge will be as I go forward in this. My W has totally free days right now. She claims not to like to be home alone. So what does she do all day? She claims to tell me, but since she either used to, or currently meets the OM sometime in the days, how do I ever really trust her? Right now it's easy because I just DB and detach from that, but as we rebuild trust (or IF we do) I am always going to suspect something is going on. I suppose that's my problem, huh. She said she went to the gym and shopping...who knows...