Ok, so, yet another real-life example. (thanks FD. I will look in on you).
She just called and indeed she says she was there at 1:00 until now. He agreed to take her case because she was recommended by a friend of his without payment up front so they met for almost an hour. She did not sound like she had anyone with her, and if she did, they sure as hell did not know their way around downtown cuz she called 3 times lost on her way out.
Once again. I could have SWORN I knew something that was most likely the totally untrue. IF I had asked/accused my W of my suspicions, what do you think would have happened? It would have been VERY bad, I assure you.
I hope I am doing the right thing. I am as suspicious as all the rest of you but somehow I am controlling my reactions to it so I don't snoop, and I don't accuse. So far, on all fronts, I have been wrong about what I thought I knew. Very eye opening, not just for current affairs (no pun intended) but in terms of our entire relationship. How many other things did I think i knew AND ACTED on that were completely wrong...
