What I am realizing is that by starting on my journey of self-discovery at the same time as trying to resurrect my marriage, I will most likely end up strong enough to do what I need to do, just at the time when I need to do it.
Grasshopper, I'm hugging you right now, can you feel it? Yes you will be strong. You don't know yet how strong you could be, but you will.
Now you're embarking on the journey to self-discovery, and it might very well be the most important journey of your life. Become still and listen to yourself, listen to that terrifying feeling you have, and ask it what it is. It might be the suppressed part of you that you've lost and are discovering right now. Once you merge into one another and by doing so reinvent yourself, you'll gsee the lesson and you'll have the tools. If you'll need help, you know where to ask.
Rob,
I understand this, but let me tell you this: from my perspective, you guys are spoiled. Your WAS however misbehaving, is still with you. She didn't make the desicion to go for the OM. And maybe if I myself had lived by the words I'm wise enough to say now, my H wouldn't have either.
To get through the darkest period of the night, act as if it is already morning.
The Talmud
