Complete agreeance with Hope here...it's kinda like the dating thing all over again...remember when you'd surprise each other with little things in the beginning. People tend to do little things for one another when they are trying to win affection, when they are feeling good about things and to make ammends...etc...when we're not feeling good about a sitch is when we pull back and become selfish. That's not what she's doing here. That's why I said it's like your dating all over again. So, absolutley model them for her...maybe with even a shirt or something she'd bought for you previously...like hey, these would go great with "such and such, don't you think?" Pull her into it the conversation...
