Piecing after divorce

[BeingMe]

I have a problem with this too, so I hope someone comes up with a good way of dealing with it. At the moment, I try and focus on the here and now. My H rarely talks about our R, so I don't have the opportunity to validate his feelings, or even give an opinion. I hope that, as time goes by, that we are able to make new, better, memories, and not have to worry about the awful things that have happened in the past. Just remember that we can only control ourselves, and cannot do anything about what our S's do or say.