Thanks mollie . . . Emily-2 got a second job and works there 4 days a week now so she and her guy aren't around half as much. I never see him when she works. It's made the situation A LOT better that way.
Now however this weekend I've been stress about how I am going to get groceries. Since she would rather go out and party tonight than grow up and have to get groceries I'm stuck trying to figure out how to get the store (since I don't drive . . I know I know . . and I'm working on getting my license, believe me)

Things with my H have calmed down a lot since she got her other job. He seems to think that since she doesn't do anything around the house and now won't even do the one thing my parents wanted her to move in for (help me get around) that I should just tell her to go home. I'd almost like to do just that . . but I just can't, I'm just going to give it some more time. But if it continues like this with her contributing nothing then I may just ask her to leave. I'm unsure at this point.
As I said though the fighting between he and I has calmed down. He's been a little cranky because he's ready to have his transfer and everything completed. Me too! It'll be a couple more months though probably. He's coming up on Monday (I have a doctor's appointment) and going home Thursday . . so it'll be nice to see him for a couple days!