molliew . . I won't bite your head off but I will tell you part of why she makes me so livid. His parents love their kids one minute and hate them the next . . . we (he and I) went about 6 months with them calling him a worthless piece of $hit . . that's right his own mother and father. Then their daughter made them angry and Kevin (my H) was out of the doghouse. So they are mad at her and cling to him. . . and because his sister hates me (we've fought on and off since he and I got together because she's pyscho) the rest of the family (I.E. the mother listened . . and made my H listen)
I know that in a little while they'll hate him again and she's already getting sick of him . . just because of him.
She's a liar and she's fake and he knows it . . he'll tell you it . . but then when she's all sugar to him he forgets.

He hates my parents (especially my mom) and he doesn't hold his tongue AT ALL . . I feel that if he can say it . . and complain to me about everything they do . . and I just listen then he deserves to hear it right back. I just don't like his mom and sister. . I'm fine with his Dad (even though he's never been crazy about me . . but he's not crazy about anyone and HATES his wife) and his younger brother and sister (after all they have NOTHING to do with any of it.)

I was reading too much into him being off. Lastnight he told me that NO MATTER what he wanted to stay married . . I was the he wanted to come home to everynight and that nothing I can say or do will change his mind (unless of course I were to file for the D)!! It was sweet . . . he just hates hearing about them making me upset because it makes him mad and he doesn't feel like there is anything he can do about it (because there's not).

The house is actually my parents (so technically it's mine I guess). I really do not know what to say to them or how to say it. I'm awful at confrontations. It's starting to interfere with my pregnancy though. . . this morning I started bleeding from stress again. . . I've been soooo angry/stressed out about it all.
He comes here to eat and sleep . . and of course be with her. Is there any nice way for me to ask her if they couldn't hang out at his house sometimes?? I am NO GOOD at standing up for myself and I know I'll never say anything about it. . . I'll probably just keep stressing! I don't know what to do!