Also makes a point of talking to ME about the stuff in her life that is bothering her. Says she can't talk to mom... And given some of the stuff this almost 15 y.o. is saying I'm am blown away... Makes me feel like I'm not totally out of touch as a parent!
This isn't about your marriage, but I have to say that if your 15 year old likes to talk to you about stuff that is bothering her, especially her being a girl, consider yourself lucky. Most kids that age "hate" their parents and don't like to even look at them. So good job!