Never mind the fact that w/ all that's happened the past year, all the things she's done that I would be completely justified in BLOWING HER OFF....
I feel that way much of the time, too. My D will be final in 3 weeks. The important thing I've learned is to focus on myself and not on my H, his mistakes, or what he is doing. It is all about ME and the positive changes I can make in MY life for MYSELF. As someone who rushed into a relationship too soon after my first husband, I would suggest not even thinking about another R right now. The reason I say that, is because any relationship that starts before you are completely healed from your D, will most likely be headed down the path of destruction- so PLEASE be very careful about making any emotional attachments right now. My D is 19. She has always been very open with me. That is wonderful your D can talk to you! Keep that up and try to be as positive as you can!
