I am new to this message board and have been reading and re-reading Michelle's book for the last week. My W of 6 yrs ort of walked away three weeks ago with our D3. I say sort of because she went accross the country to be with her family and has told me that if I want to save the R then I need to move to be where she is [one of the issues between us has been that we have lived near my family for the whole time that we have been married]. To be honest, I have mixed feelings towards her individually right now, but I feel the need to do what is necessary to reconcile because I also remeber the good times. My point is, I have read through this forum and realize that you all are in a different place. I am sad because I wonder if that is where I am headed anyway. Is it worth all the pain?
