Quote: So true! As long as one has given one's WAS every opportunity at real reconciliation, then if things are the same as before, then what is the point. You have to be able to walk away with your head held high, having explored every avenue. Like Dr. Phil says: "You know you're ready for a divorce when you can walk out the door with no anger, frustration or hurt. Otherwise, you've got unfinished business," says Dr. Phil. "Unless and until you look each other in the eye feeling peace, no hatred or resentment, you're not ready to get a divorce." That is the place I am in right now. I am not done yet, but if things don't change soon, then I will withdraw my feelings and move on, once I feel I have done everything humanly possible to get through to my H. Sometimes, I think he just wishes the things he has done will just be forgotten, and he can carry on as before, with no consequences, or having to prove anything to me. Well, we'll see!
I wish you well on your journey!
Couple Questions- Exactly how does your H prove it to you? Not being rude. Going through this with my W. She doesn't believe I have changed. She holds on to the negative and filters everything through the past. So how would one notice the change when so much anger is still prsent.
JSD
Hillcountry
[color:"red"]I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it."
