Thanks everyone for commenting and sharing your thoughts and emotions. I agree with all that was written. If its one sided, then usually it doesnt work out. It takes two and YES she had to prove herself to me and she didnt. She claims she has changed or that I may not have liked who she has become and in all honesty, she was JUST like she was before. No change in her....she thinks she has changed, but again, she was her own self. If you do not prove your love through action, then what do u really have in a R? Just a body going through life with you.....They say they care, they say this and that...and the outcome is that WE through this process has opened our hearts and mind to many wonderful possabilities to search for the love we are meant to have in this world. The DB process makes us wiser, stronger, better human beings...besides meeting some wonderful and intelligent people on here, WOW!...life is too short!
You only have one chance in this life time to make it right, it is not a dress rehersal!!
