Funny how we are so different and still all end up here anyway. I was clearly the opposite. Not very close, perhaps too independent for my own good...always pushing Dave away to go and find himself, do things...blah blah. It wasn't what he wanted. He wanted to be together all the time. He couldn't do anything without me always being there. So now he has found someone much better suited for him. I'm now looking into my heart and soul with the assistance of my brain this time to see what it is I REALLY want in life and in love.
Hope, just wanted to let you know that I am here honey. I read your thread yesterday. Didn't know how to reply to everything that happened. But NYS brought up everything that I wanted to say...as usual. But I am here. If you need me to come out there, you know I am there for you in a heartbeat, K?
Just remember that this is Js journey in life. There is nothing that you can do but him go. BUT I do want to see you protected from anything foolish he is doing. I don't want to see you over your head in a house you can truly can't aford (although, hmmmm...want a roommate HEE HEE!) and I most certainly don't want you out on the streets (you've got a place here). He's selfish right now, okay? The man you know and love is not really there right now. So just please, please slow down a bit too. I know you are hurting and I hate to see you having to go through this. I also want you to consider something here...being nice through all this separation of stuff, isn't going to necessarily win his heart back okay? I know you have a heart of gold and you may think, well if I give him all this then he will want to come home. Remember Expect the Worst, Hope for the Best. There are no guarantees honey. Just protect yourself.
Remember the charms you gave me...live by those two words honey.
