My H didn't spend alot of time out of town, but he does have a lot of things going on that keep him away from the house for the better part of the day. When he was around, I felt the same way as you. He's home, we should do something together, I want to be close to him. I think that just made him want to get away cuz that's when I started the clingy, hanging on to him stuff. He just doesn't do clingy. I was trying to control every moment he was with me to make sure he would stay. Kinda smothering probably. But now looking back I can see it clearly.
