Well, to be honest, H. has been moved out for 6 months. He took very little with him, and moved into a rental house that a family member owns. Now he wants his own apt. He may take more things from our house at that point, but I don't think it will really upset me as much as it did the first time. He's taken no photos with him. He just wants the basics, it seems.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
