Hope, sorry that you are going through all of this. It cannot be easy. But you do sound a lot stronger, each storm that you weather.
I do help that things fall into place and the finances work themselves out.You never know what may turn up for you. I am amazed at what falls in my lap when I just leave things out there. (yes I know it sounds a bit wacko, but I do believe in this, and it does seem to happen to me)