Hope, many times I felt like giving up and you will too. But the next day I'd feel different. So, give yourself 24 hours before you decide.
Him getting his own place still doesn't mean your M is over. Mine lived in his own place for 6 months after living with friends for a couple months. He just wanted to be on his own and see what it was like. He started inviting me over.
One big positive--he doesn't want to D! I suggest you not talk about your R with him anymore. Let him take care of the legal sep and get some legal advice to protect yourself during the time. Don't discuss it with him and don't expect him to be helpful to you.
Even better if you can keep from talking to him at all. It will just wind you up whenever you do. Let him leave messages. As some have said on the board "let him spin in the wind" for awhile.
He doesn't know what he wants right now and he's obviously confused by what he's saying to you about the house. That isn't your fault or your problem. You know what to do to take care of yourself, so just do it. Let him see that you can take care of yourself and you can live without him if you need to.
No more questions to him. You will get answers you don't like. He sees it all as pressure and that is one thing he is trying to get away from. Let OW pressure him--could be he gets tired of that and wants to go where he isn't pressured.
