He made a comment to me like, “Do you know how much easier this would be if you could just pay the mortgage alone?”
You should have said "Yeah, do you know how much easier this would be if you could just stop being an a$$hole?" Sorry...
All I can do at this point is offer what I can possibly pay towards the mortgage while still covering all my other monthly bills and expenses.
That is exactly right. He knows how much you make. So, tell him that you figured out how much you could afford to contribute towards that mortgage and thats it. If he isn't in agreement, then the only other option is to sell the house. Tough on him. I made it perfectly clear to my H that there was no way he would continue to live in our home without me, even if we were D. They want their cake and eat it too...too f...ing bad!
The only thing I can assume then is that this has something to do with o.w
I'm borrowing Sassy's whip here...stop assuming!
Just let him know that you thought about his suggestion, and that at this time, you can't afford half. He'll have to take it or leave it. Besides, you didn't force him to leave your home, and you certainly aren't making him move out of his brothers.
