super,

No, I sure don't want him to come back sooner than he is ready to, but I am concerned as to what is going on with him. He doesn't seem to be at work when he should be, going by the receipts he left me (debit). And now he's written himself a large check for cash, and did not explain to me why. Considering we have a shared acct. I do feel I have the right to ask about this.
Something is happening and it sure doesn't feel like it's in my benefit. I have tried to return his call and he is not picking up. On his message to me, he said we needed to go over a few things; that he has been having a problem with money. Yeah, I'll bet. He's spending it all on o.w. and her child.
I have such a headache right now.


Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.