As I suspected, H. was not here when I came home. He'd been and left. He left me a vm asking me to call him. I also noticed he wrote a check for a substantial amount of cash from our acct. I do not know what is going on here. He said he needed this until he got paid again on Friday. He also took all our tax info. and said on the vm that he would have it filed (obviously jointly). What am I going to do next? Should I ask him if he is moving, or wait for him to tell me? Another thing that bothered me, I noticed on the receipts he left on the counter that he'd gone to the grocery store a few times to buy things for o.w.'s child (baby items). And the time stamp on the receipt shows a time/date that H. should have been at work. I think there is so much more going on with him than I really know. What should I do? A part of me wants to confront him (would have to be on the phone) and find out what is going on here. Hope
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
