You’re back! I’m so glad. How was the flight? Now he can learn how to take care of himself and he will find out what it is like to not have you there to depend on. If memory serves me right, haven't you bailed him out of some financial irresponsibilites since all this started? It will be good for him to handle things on his own for once. Maybe it will satisfy more of his need for independence that he seems to crave these days. I wouldn’t say I’ve “bailed” him out of anything financially; I just manage all the paperwork and make sure things are paid on time. Which I will still do for myself. He will have to worry about his own responsibilities. It will be interesting to see how his contact with me changes after this. He won’t have the excuse to call re: our finances so much any longer. this is giving you some mental freedom here This is a way to see a positive in the situation; good idea. I want you to know that it was the sweetest gift anyone has ever given me. Thank you. You are more than welcome, Sassy. It was my pleasure. I am so happy you like it.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
