I'm here...I'm here...as for being sweet...thank you Al. Kinda needed to hear something along the lines of that today. Hate being in a freaking funk like this. Perhaps Kismet needs to take the whip to me!!
Okay...missy...so you've backslide. Well kinda thought you might a bit. Okay, so I am picking you up, dusting you off and setting you back on your feet.
Okay, so he's separating finances, FINALLY...good. Now he can learn how to take care of himself and he will find out what it is like to not have you there to depend on. If memory serves me right, haven't you bailed him out of some financial irresponsibilites since all this started?
More importantly, you won't be stressed out anymore about HAVING to talk to him about finances either. You will have what you need, when you need it to take care of the house, etc. I don't mean to sound harsh honey, cause you know I care about you...but this is giving you some mental freedom here. Forcing you to let him learn how to care for himself.
I have this beautiful necklace that hasn't come off since you gave it to me...I want you to remember what is on that necklace, the two words and remember that also reflects in you honey. You are both of those words...as am I...pull from that when you need strength...I know you have it in you. You are one helluva a woman, with a heart of gold. You deserve so much love in your life. Not the pain that you are going through. Everytime I look at that necklace, a smile comes to my face. I want you to know that it was the sweetest gift anyone has ever given me. Thank you.
