Detach Hope. Focus on yourself. Post here. I know you miss him, but focus away from that.

My W was out drinking with friends last night, and I was in a chat with some friends on another board. My D's were very worried about her, but I was sort of upset that she got home at 11:30. I sort of resigned myself that I would deal with any problems she got herself in, but I wasn't going to worry about anything else. I probably should have just gone to bed to show I didn't stay up waiting on her.

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