I know my H. well enough to know that if he makes this change, he has pretty much decided.
A while back you knew him well enough to think your marriage would never be in this kind of mess. Two weeks ago, you knew him well enough to know he wasn't going to come over and "spend time" with you like he did the other day.
Don't assume and don't read things into things sister (oh, and do as I say not as I do since I can't stop doing it either )
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