Well, H. just called me and I did answer it. He did not sound cheery and happy like he had been acting in the past week. Basically, he wanted me to give him the info. on the bills he will be responsible to pay once he transfers his paycheck to his own acct. and he wants me to get this information together for him as soon as possible. I did not argue his decision and I said I would get the information for him.
So he's taking steps to completely separate our finances now and this is not a step towards coming back, I am afraid. I do not take this as a positive sign. I know my H. well enough to know that if he makes this change, he has pretty much decided.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
