I guess I still don't know how the male mind works. Don't worry about saying I was being silly; I need to be set straight! And you are right--H. is no DB'er by any means. I should do myself a favor and keep this in mind.
I hope he will be back, but I'm not going to plan for it, that way I won't be disappointed again. I still don't know if he intends to come by on Sat. evening as he said he would. Is it best not to bring this up again? So far I haven't.
You know, I tried to be SO careful when he was here Monday, not to ask alot of questions (seen as prying), not to follow him around (smothering), not to make the first move towards a hug or kiss (also smothering). I thought I had done a really good job, and yet, as you said, he still jumped back. I don't think I could have been more careful or cautious.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
