HF something that bugs you -- his depression. MIL recommended that I contact a Dr and get on Zolof for mine. that bugged me. I am not depressed, according to her, its been 6 months and I shouldn't be crying anymore. Truth is I don't cry everyday, rarely actually. In fact I had a particularly bad issue which I cried over, and I would have likely cried over it if H never left, she acknowledged that was something to cry over. I must say, if it weren't for this board, I probably would have spent alot mroe time crying, and too, I would not have all these wonderful LBS's to tell me that I am normal and don't need Zolof. Now, ofcourse, that is all rational, and I probably could have just posted that in my thread, but I am putting it here b/c you don't know what is going on with your H and why he thinks or doesn't think that he may be depressed. The positive thing is he is not emotionally opening up to OW that he is having this emotional problem, and she is not showing him that he needs help.
