shocked, Hi there. Thank you for the kind words. Maybe he does use the finances as a reason to contact me; I suppose that could be true. I never assume anything about H. anymore because he is so hard to figure out. grasshoper, I don't know why I even brought up the depression. I mean I've read enough about it to know that you can't suggest to someone that they might be depressed and have them believe you. It would be so much easier if they did, or at least looked into the possibility.
A girlfriend of mine has been emailing me. She was a LBS; her husband moved out, had an affair, etc. but he is back with her now. She totally understands how I feel and I told her about what happened. She said to me:
I want to tell you that my husband came back to me and we held each other. We both started crying, and I thought that this was him coming back to me. He did not stay, he said that he could not because he did not feel that way any more. I could feel his heart beating, so I knew that he felt something. I am telling you this because they do not know what they are feeling and some day it will work out. You need to focus on you right now. You need to do things that make you feel better.
A little insight from a former LBS.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
