Money. Hmph. The perfect excuse to call you; that's all. Yeah, yeah, yeah ... I know he has to do account updates. But was he being this "aggressive" in contacting you a couple weeks ago? Don't you think it's a little weird how he's blowing your phone up now, despite what he said to you recently about being so "done"? Here's a question for ya: Why, if he's so done, can't he get his own account? When my H left, that was one of the first things he did.

You are doing beautifully, GF! Keep it up! You're letting him stew while re-building your own strength. I'm happy for you!